http://www.joeydevilla.com/2007/02/24/where-the-single-men-and-women-are/ Joey deVilla's Personal Blog Wed, 20 Aug 2008 11:19:33 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 http://www.joeydevilla.com/2007/02/24/where-the-single-men-and-women-are/#comment-8858 Anonymous Mon, 26 Feb 2007 03:19:51 +0000 http://www.joeydevilla.com/2007/02/24/where-the-single-men-and-women-are/#comment-8858 Yes, but where is the greatest plurality of very, very RICH men or women? Or the greatest plurality of very, very interesting male or female conversation partners? Details like that would be more directly useful for planning purposes by those of dating age, don't you think? Yes, but where is the greatest plurality of very, very RICH men or women? Or the greatest plurality of very, very interesting male or female conversation partners? Details like that would be more directly useful for planning purposes by those of dating age, don’t you think?

]]> http://www.joeydevilla.com/2007/02/24/where-the-single-men-and-women-are/#comment-8857 Anonymous Sun, 25 Feb 2007 06:11:53 +0000 http://www.joeydevilla.com/2007/02/24/where-the-single-men-and-women-are/#comment-8857 Then there's suburban, where everybody married their college sweetheart and I'm the only one over 23 who isn't a Smug Married. And I'm a West Coaster and female, so you wouldn't expect that. Then there’s suburban, where everybody married their college sweetheart and I’m the only one over 23 who isn’t a Smug Married. And I’m a West Coaster and female, so you wouldn’t expect that.

]]> http://www.joeydevilla.com/2007/02/24/where-the-single-men-and-women-are/#comment-8856 Anonymous Sat, 24 Feb 2007 16:56:25 +0000 http://www.joeydevilla.com/2007/02/24/where-the-single-men-and-women-are/#comment-8856 I think it would be best to factor in urban vs rural. Some years ago I was in quite a rut because every woman I met seemed to have these unrealistic goals for the ideal man -- and it wasn't me. Then I visited my friend Christina, near Wasaga Beach. She assured me I could find a woman in no time. Without explaining further, I realized why city dating was so different; too many choices. When you're in a city it doesn't seem unreasonable to find the "perfect" match. There are so many to choose from. But watch out when those women get to theirs 30s. That's when they start lowering the bar. Now that I'm in my 40s I'm starting to discover that. I'm not a good-looking guy but I've seen more action in the last few months then I've seen in the last ten years. Even to the point where I've been stalked. Something strange is going on. I think it would be best to factor in urban vs rural.
Some years ago I was in quite a rut because every woman I met seemed to have these unrealistic goals for the ideal man — and it wasn’t me.
Then I visited my friend Christina, near Wasaga Beach. She assured me I could find a woman in no time. Without explaining further, I realized why city dating was so different; too many choices.
When you’re in a city it doesn’t seem unreasonable to find the “perfect” match. There are so many to choose from. But watch out when those women get to theirs 30s. That’s when they start lowering the bar. Now that I’m in my 40s I’m starting to discover that. I’m not a good-looking guy but I’ve seen more action in the last few months then I’ve seen in the last ten years. Even to the point where I’ve been stalked. Something strange is going on.

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