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	<title>Comments on: Flanders-Like Behaviour + Anti-Social Neighbour = Disaster [Updated]</title>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Feb 2005 20:43:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I also agree with Joey on this one.  How litigious can you be?  I thought she was anxious because she was a single woman at home with a knock at the door at night...  but if your husband's around...

  She's got other problems if her anxiety is that bad, and should seek treatment for it, instead of suing well-meaning teenagers as a band-aid "quick gratification" - sound familiar as a label for the youth of these days?  Ironic, no?  Anyway, she sounds like Pat from Achewood.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I also agree with Joey on this one.  How litigious can you be?  I thought she was anxious because she was a single woman at home with a knock at the door at night&#8230;  but if your husband&#8217;s around&#8230;</p>
<p>  She&#8217;s got other problems if her anxiety is that bad, and should seek treatment for it, instead of suing well-meaning teenagers as a band-aid &#8220;quick gratification&#8221; - sound familiar as a label for the youth of these days?  Ironic, no?  Anyway, she sounds like Pat from Achewood.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Feb 2005 20:53:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No good deed goes unpunished.

  I have to wonder:  Do these people sue the folks that leave flyers in their mailbox, out of fear that they might be death threats instead?

  Me, I wouldn't eat random cookies, but I wouldn't stress myself about it to the point of believing I'd had a heart attack, either.  I might keep the box and the note, though.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No good deed goes unpunished.</p>
<p>  I have to wonder:  Do these people sue the folks that leave flyers in their mailbox, out of fear that they might be death threats instead?</p>
<p>  Me, I wouldn&#8217;t eat random cookies, but I wouldn&#8217;t stress myself about it to the point of believing I&#8217;d had a heart attack, either.  I might keep the box and the note, though.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Feb 2005 00:36:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Some may think she should have had a heart attack :)

  The real question is...  did she *eat* the cookies?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some may think she should have had a heart attack <img src='http://www.joeydevilla.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
  The real question is&#8230;  did she *eat* the cookies?</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Feb 2005 21:49:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Any sympathy I had for Ms. Young evaporated with:

  a) Her refusal to accept the apology from the girls. She claims their apologies "rang false". Dammit, I knew someone had stolen my mirror that can look into people souls!

  b) Ms. Young's husband: "I don�t believe the girls meant for this to happen. But they could have prevented it from happening if they had just shut their mouths when they came out of (small claims) court." Last I checked, small claims court was a public place, and the girls have every right to talk about their getting sued.

  c) The girls say they offered to pay Ms. Young's hospital expenses; they refused and sued instead. These people aren't after justice; they're after vengeance.

  d) The Youngs called one of the girls' fathers and basically said "no more mister nice guy, we're suing." That's intimidation.

  e) The Youngs say the got the help of some local clergy before deciding to sue. Who'd they go to, the Church of Satan?

  Yes, the girls were extremely naive (and forgoing a dance? Let me add "extremely square") in their misguided attempt to do a good deed. But they made it very clear -- as does their odd lack of guile -- that all they were trying to do was a good deed.

  While I understand your position and in no way condone the sending of death threats, the Youngs' subsequent behaviour is bullying, pure and simple.

  Does anyone else think I'm being too harsh? I'm willing to change my position, given sufficient and compelling reasoning.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Any sympathy I had for Ms. Young evaporated with:</p>
<p>  a) Her refusal to accept the apology from the girls. She claims their apologies &#8220;rang false&#8221;. Dammit, I knew someone had stolen my mirror that can look into people souls!</p>
<p>  b) Ms. Young&#8217;s husband: &#8220;I don�t believe the girls meant for this to happen. But they could have prevented it from happening if they had just shut their mouths when they came out of (small claims) court.&#8221; Last I checked, small claims court was a public place, and the girls have every right to talk about their getting sued.</p>
<p>  c) The girls say they offered to pay Ms. Young&#8217;s hospital expenses; they refused and sued instead. These people aren&#8217;t after justice; they&#8217;re after vengeance.</p>
<p>  d) The Youngs called one of the girls&#8217; fathers and basically said &#8220;no more mister nice guy, we&#8217;re suing.&#8221; That&#8217;s intimidation.</p>
<p>  e) The Youngs say the got the help of some local clergy before deciding to sue. Who&#8217;d they go to, the Church of Satan?</p>
<p>  Yes, the girls were extremely naive (and forgoing a dance? Let me add &#8220;extremely square&#8221;) in their misguided attempt to do a good deed. But they made it very clear &#8212; as does their odd lack of guile &#8212; that all they were trying to do was a good deed.</p>
<p>  While I understand your position and in no way condone the sending of death threats, the Youngs&#8217; subsequent behaviour is bullying, pure and simple.</p>
<p>  Does anyone else think I&#8217;m being too harsh? I&#8217;m willing to change my position, given sufficient and compelling reasoning.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Feb 2005 20:57:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jeez, Joey, the lady and her husband are getting piles of hate mail and death threats. This story is getting a very one-sided telling around the blogosphere--and two teenage girls baking cookies are a lot more sympathetic than a nervous old lady who got scared by a doorbell rung way past her bedtime. Yes, it was just kids with cookies but she didn't know that. And apparently some judge or the jury who heard the whole story from both sides agreed that the girls ought to pay her $900. So Wanita Young is a grouchy neighbor--she doesn't deserve the high-tech lynching she's getting.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jeez, Joey, the lady and her husband are getting piles of hate mail and death threats. This story is getting a very one-sided telling around the blogosphere&#8211;and two teenage girls baking cookies are a lot more sympathetic than a nervous old lady who got scared by a doorbell rung way past her bedtime. Yes, it was just kids with cookies but she didn&#8217;t know that. And apparently some judge or the jury who heard the whole story from both sides agreed that the girls ought to pay her $900. So Wanita Young is a grouchy neighbor&#8211;she doesn&#8217;t deserve the high-tech lynching she&#8217;s getting.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Feb 2005 16:04:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It wasn't NSFW (Not Safe For Work) when I checked it, but it turns out that the page has a random image for its header. I got a relatively work-safe one; you must've gotten one less so.

  I'll change the link to the Reuters story.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It wasn&#8217;t NSFW (Not Safe For Work) when I checked it, but it turns out that the page has a random image for its header. I got a relatively work-safe one; you must&#8217;ve gotten one less so.</p>
<p>  I&#8217;ll change the link to the Reuters story.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Feb 2005 15:59:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Boy howdy!  Might want to mention that the link is NSFW!  The Reuters article is &lt;a href="http://www.reuters.com/newsArticle.jhtml;jsessionid=I5GBAIF320LP2CRBAELCFFA?type=oddlyEnoughNews&#038;storyID=7545904" rel="nofollow"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Boy howdy!  Might want to mention that the link is NSFW!  The Reuters article is <a href="http://www.reuters.com/newsArticle.jhtml;jsessionid=I5GBAIF320LP2CRBAELCFFA?type=oddlyEnoughNews&#038;storyID=7545904" rel="nofollow">here</a>.</p>
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